Yeah I didn't say hate because I don't think it is. Perhaps it is just some unbridgeable personality gap. I guess it's racialism; IDK. I have to get close to people to appreciate their struggle, and the sorts who don't let me in on that, or lie about it, or try to blame me, it's a lot harder for us to understand each other.

I have known black women that are quite competent, and on the basis of protocol we get along quite well. Just without a lot of mutual understanding. white Mars and black Venus I guess.