A while ago it was brought up the joyful circumstances of numerous commentors here being married or in some other form of relationship. Some even had kids.
Question for you all, how hard is it nowadays to be in one (relationship), or get in one? The red pill media has, over the years, become very black pilled and sensationalist on the subject. Granted, with ever increasing feminism and a decrease in tolerance for male behavior I have noticed it getting a lot harder out there... but ia it anywhere near as bad as they say?
While we are at it, what the hell does everyone do for fun in the real world? Prices have gone sky high in America, especially rent and housing, and over the years I have noticed less and less people go out, especially those in their 20s and 30s. I like to hike and explore so sitting at home doing nothing but play video games, read and watch tv drivers me nuts after a while. Granted, society seems less friendly and more shut in nowadays anyways. Still, there must be some clubs or whatever that people do for fun, even if not as frequently as ye olden times.
I've pretty much given up on the women front. Although if I'm honest there wasn't a very long time I put a ton of effort in. I'm sure back in the day of a woman at home raising kids while I go to work, I'd have been in on that. I never wanted kids for most of my life and am still pretty indifferent on that now, so dealing with today's woman just doesn't offer me any positive value. For whatever reason like the whole dream of a wife and kids just wasn't really ever there for me for the most part anyway. Perhaps at times as I get older. I'm sure someone will say I've got some sort of social disorder or am on a spectrum or something. I don't care to know honestly; I don't need any crutches anyway.
Fun stuff? I mean I play games a ton. Watch TV a little. Read about in between those two. That's just day to day stuff. I don't want to spend every evening out doing something. Otherwise? Alone stuff I work on my house, wrench on cars, some hiking, I've been working on game dev, etc. I game online some with one of my cousin's kids 2-3 times a week, occasionally my nephew, and less occasionally some friends. I'll do something more involved with friends once or twice a month. We will go camping, well sort of, it's RV camping and sometimes I just go hang out for the day (no RV myself). Occasional golf game with friends. Don't think I'm some amazing golfer either, they'd probably make videos of me on how not to play golf. I don't really do clubs and bars, but I will on rare occasion also with friends. I go visit my brother a couple times a year, my dad a couple times a year, and my mom and cousins another couple times a year. After all this I'm tired and out of time anyway, so while it doesn't seem like much it's more than enough for me.
It's interesting. I always wanted to have children. I clearly remember having a conversation in highschool where some of the guys were like "hell no, I'd never have kids" and I felt the exact opposite.
There may be no rhyme or reason behind it...just something that you're into or you're not.
Yeah who knows. It's not the easy answer of "not liking kids" either. I mean I get annoyed by little kids, but doesn't everyone a bit? Screaming like an obnoxious brat is not ever cute. I'm a wizard with teenagers though, they generally all love me. I don't mean getting walked all over by them either.