I figured it would be interesting/ enlightening to hear from users who have found happy relationships in modern society and how they met. I know how much we love to make hating posts on the stupidity of modernity, but posts from guys that have successfully found stable relationships despite the cultural zeitgeist is just as important/ informative.
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The great blindspot of the manosphere is that men also have a best by date if you want a long term healthy relationship.
Your SMV isn't the end all be all, timing is just as, if not more important.
I will never have a childhood best friend I've known for 20 years. Simply because I missed that opportunity, I'm not a child anymore and don't have one, so pursuing it now is futile.
A long term relationship is the same. You have to find a woman who will be with you as an investment, thus who is mature early. You both offer your best years.
If you don't find that early enough you've missed the boat. Exceptions may happen, I couldn't say. But your odds sink to the trench.
Healthy relationships are rare, partially because most of the population are selfish thoughtless morons, incapable of pair bonding without social pressure.
If you are in the category that requires that pressure to find somebody it will work with, tough luck mate. Get a dog
I feel the same way. All those articles about men in their 30s somehow being prime material is just coping for a lot of Gen Y/ early millennials. We missed the boat. There is a theory that is why so many people are going hard core on the lgbt/ political parties. A ton of men and women have, instinctively, come to the conclusion they will die alone. And they aren't taking it very well.
Men in their 30s need good jobs, assets, and no debt. That’s like catnip to single women.
I just see single men & women refusing to compromise on anything as they get older. This is a new phenomena.