I figured it would be interesting/ enlightening to hear from users who have found happy relationships in modern society and how they met. I know how much we love to make hating posts on the stupidity of modernity, but posts from guys that have successfully found stable relationships despite the cultural zeitgeist is just as important/ informative.
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Worked my way up to the top of a popular pop culture hobby in a major city. Ran through slew of women, some good, some bad. Got to the point where friends swiping on tinder were seeing pictures of girls with me. I must admit I got somewhat jaded due to how many women I went through.
Met my wife at an event for the hobby and she sought me out there. Was impressed right away that she wasn't flaky or have any baggage. Exceptionally industrious and driven as she is beautiful. Hooked up, noticed I had just taken her V card so good sign for long term. Didn't expect her to stick around but she did, through multiple years and countries. Essentially she cured me of my jadedness and made me believe in relationships again just by being consistent for years. Realized this was "it" and have been very happy.
Best advice is you really do have to "kiss a lot of frogs". Work on you but practice being a good partner and drop women immediately who are bad partners. At same time be open to being surprised and try not to get too jaded. The unicorns exist but you have to search far and wide, not to mention be worthy of it once you find it.