A zero-zero example isn't an outlier, it's normal. People match with similar attractiveness.
I will say, he's good at social skills, and is the most social person in my friend group (I'm actually the objectively worst). She's pretty bad with social skills, but she loves being a woman of simple tastes and joys. She is already unable to be independent as it is for a litany of reasons.
Relationships aren't about what is positions in objective reality. It's just about what you have in reference to the other person. You might have poor social skills as a man, but if they are significantly better than hers, that's a win for her.
A zero-zero example isn't an outlier, it's normal. People match with similar attractiveness.
I will say, he's good at social skills, and is the most social person in my friend group (I'm actually the objectively worst). She's pretty bad with social skills, but she loves being a woman of simple tastes and joys. She is already unable to be independent as it is for a litany of reasons.
Relationships aren't about what is positions in objective reality. It's just about what you have in reference to the other person. You might have poor social skills as a man, but if they are significantly better than hers, that's a win for her.