i don't shit where i eat so i never banged a coworker, but a week later i was already plowing that organizer. eventually, she tells me the fact that i left really got her going, and she wanted to leave her own event with me.

I suppose this is mostly just down to the fact that you postured: "I'm more valuable than everyone at this event, and I have minium standards to meet" followed by her reasoning of: "WAIT He thinks he's more valuable than me??? I'm the most attractive person here, and a bunch of the other women were interested in him!"

they're quick to bash the men in attendance as unworthy, but never engage in introspection that asks what they can do to better their odds, and why they as the hunted have to go out of their way to be hunted. well, it's because the hunters don't want them.

It's more like they are describing men as simply mediocre, but not putting enough work in for their attention. Meanwhile the women are putting a ton of work for attention, but don't really want it... because the men are already looking for them.