A woman treating herself as an object is clearly empowering, because it advances female agency.
A hetrosexual man enjoying a portrayal of a woman as a sexual object is clearly problematic, because men should not be allowed to satisfy themselves with fictional women. That would prevent those men from being subservient to an actual woman, potentially reducing female agency by reducing the amount of male attention and resources they receive.
Everything being argued by the feminist can be expressed in terms of women's agency and domination of male attention and resources. In the eye of hypergamy, there is no contradiction or limitation: only women rationalizing an ever-greater share of male resources in a zero-sum game.
A woman treating herself as an object is clearly empowering, because it advances female agency.
A hetrosexual man enjoying a portrayal of a woman as a sexual object is clearly problematic, because men should not be allowed to satisfy themselves with fictional women. That would prevent those men from being subservient to an actual woman, potentially reducing female agency by reducing the amount of male attention and resources they receive.
Everything being argued by the feminist can be expressed in terms of women's agency and domination of male attention and resources. In the eye of hypergamy, there is no contradiction or limitation: only women rationalizing an ever-greater share of male resources in a zero-sum game.