Men have choices if they're in the top percentile of men. If you're not, your value is the same as it ever was - zero. Ask the growing number of men who are posting about their experiences of being single in their 40s with no options left, not even being a "beta bux" male for a single mother.
The advice to young single men of wait until your thirties only somewhat applies to that top percentile of men and ignores a critical aspect of men that women value - pre-selection proven via experience. That's why divorced men have better outcomes for dating in middle age compared to long term single men, they have the proof and can show the experience.
Men have choices if they're in the top percentile of men. If you're not, your value is the same as it ever was - zero. Ask the growing number of men who are posting about their experiences of being single in their 40s with no options left, not even being a "beta bux" male for a single mother.
The advice to young single men of wait until your thirties only somewhat applies to that top percentile of men and ignores a critical aspect of men that women value - pre-selection proven via experience. That's why divorced men have better outcomes for dating in middle age compared to long term single men, they have the proof and can show the experience.