I actually do find it rather sad how many friends of mine have had healthy, long lasting relationships, but are still sticking to their guns about not wanting kids.

I mean, I get putting that sort of thing off for a while, especially with practical concerns in-mind. I also get how many don't really want to deal with it at all. But I'd like to think at least having one or two kids at some point in your lifetime is maybe something that could be worth doing.