And I know that we, as a society, should teach boys from childhood that violence against women and girls is a deadly epidemic that needs to be stopped

Women commit far greater rates of domestic violence, they just don’t go to jail for it, in fact, under the Duluth model, the man gets arrested for a physically abusive spouse. Maybe you should focus on the fact you are ready to be emotionally abusive and very likely physically abusive to a child simply for having a penis.