It's not excusing them as much as the fact that they're going to happen. There is no person with perfect self control that has never ever said stuff in their life in anger. What are you going to do, cut everybody off once they argue with you?
So if your wife who is high on hormones is 8 months pregnant, she can do or not do, and say whatever she wants and you can't do anything about it because she's pregnant? With that logic the world should be run by women in their third trimester because...she's pregnant. Next step...she's PMSing so you need to just let her do what she wants.
Been in that situation too many times not to recognize it for what it is. My wife grew up in an abusive family, her father physical, her mother mental/emotional. Her mother's #1 tactic was to stay calm and sound "reasonable" until she got the other person to blow, thereby giving her the "moral high ground". It'll work until you see the pattern.
Married with kids. Also you shouldn't speak like an asshole to your spouse but it can happen, especially during arguments.
Arguments do happen and regretful comments can be made, but it still doesn’t excuse them.
It's not excusing them as much as the fact that they're going to happen. There is no person with perfect self control that has never ever said stuff in their life in anger. What are you going to do, cut everybody off once they argue with you?
That's true, but telling your wife that you do not love her is shooting your marriage in the head.
I mean this is a few months before divorce, the marriage is pretty much dead at this point
That's hindsight though, she's eight months pregnant and Steven is still talking to her about wifely duties
So if your wife who is high on hormones is 8 months pregnant, she can do or not do, and say whatever she wants and you can't do anything about it because she's pregnant? With that logic the world should be run by women in their third trimester because...she's pregnant. Next step...she's PMSing so you need to just let her do what she wants.
Judging from the video she wasn’t acting all crazy.
Been in that situation too many times not to recognize it for what it is. My wife grew up in an abusive family, her father physical, her mother mental/emotional. Her mother's #1 tactic was to stay calm and sound "reasonable" until she got the other person to blow, thereby giving her the "moral high ground". It'll work until you see the pattern.
The downvotes and the replies you’re getting proves that point.