Its not blaming for contracting. Its blaming for helping spread further. That was my point, that near every victim helped victimize a different person during their time in the cult.

If you were groomed and struggled alone with it, you deserve all the sympathy. But most were openly and gleefully part of the same squads that groomed them and helping groom others into it, whether by Discord or Twitter or what have you.

Being weak doesn't give you freedom to hurt others, even if its in the same way you were hurt. Once you've crossed that line you are the predator regardless of your sad back story.