Neither love nor kindness have anything to do with inoffensiveness.
Look at 4chan. If they're calling you a fag and telling you to kill yourself, that's kindness, it means they've read your works and thought about them, and give you honesty in response. Look at Canada. If they're calling you sexually-diverse and telling you to seek MAID services, that's NOT kindness, even though it's the exact same message as on 4chan, but with such polite and sanitary terms, they genuinely wish death upon you.
Neither love nor kindness have anything to do with inoffensiveness.
Look at 4chan. If they're calling you a fag and telling you to kill yourself, that's kindness, it means they've read your works and thought about them, and give you honesty in response. Look at Canada. If they're calling you sexually-diverse and telling you to seek MAID services, that's NOT kindness, even though it's the exact same message as on 4chan, but with such polite and sanitary terms, they genuinely wish death upon you.