"its enough"

Now do black men.

Now do immigrants.

Now do muslims.

Now to any demographic that is socially unacceptable to openly hate.

It's not "angry men", it's people that see you for the truly hateful sad sacks you are. Your problems aren't caused by men, your problems are overwhelmingly caused by yourself. And yes, even in the cases of predators, you should still be looking to defend yourself through any means possible. You own yourself, not society. That means you should be defending yourself. That's what self ownership entails.