All humans mature via struggle. Cliche as it is, suffering really does build character.

The mental handicap that women face is that as soon as they grow tits, they stop struggling. Everything is handed to them by betas for the rest of their life. Starting around the age of 14, most women never experience mental maturation ever again, or at least not until they're in their 50s and aren't hot any more. That's why so many women act like teenagers forever. It's because mentally, they are teenagers.

And yes, I place most of the blame for this phenomenon squarely on pathetic orbiters doting upon m'lady for a crumb.