Go see the movie, shows, and games you like and be happy.

This is the stance I have come around to as well. I dont really go out of my way to try and decide if something is "woke" or "based". If something catches my eye, I will take part in it. And both sides can fuck off.

Of course, that still usually means avoiding your typical Hollywood bullshit since they couldnt write an interesting story to save their lives.