"If you child doesn't trust [you] to come out to you maybe self reflect on why that is"

Well that's simple. Because like so many other cases, you mutilations tell these children that it needs to be kept a secret from their parents. You lot are literally the ones sowing distrust of parents. The children distrusting their parents isn't natural, it's a result from groomers manipulating children.

Are there shitty parents out there where this could be true? Absolutely. But time and again, it's because groomers are telling them it needs to be a secret.