I'm struggling with this myself. Woman age 30, been with my SO for over 4 years, working together to grow close and become a family. He knew I wanted kids from the start. Four years on, still waiting for a ring... I mentioned finally wanting to have a baby. SO's story changed- he doesn't think he can or will ever be able to support me. I am not some independent career woman, I'm a flaky artist barely making ends meet as is. I can't support myself if I leave him. I have no family that could support me, no close friends, I would definitely have to live out of a car. What am I supposed to do? I am almost out of time. It had already taken me until 26 to find a man with property and a decent income. Honestly not sure I want to even continue to live. This society sucks.
Lmao maybe you should evaluated character over property and income then?? Good character would include eing hard working and motivated among other things and lead to the materialistic shit you want. Also if he hasn't married you in 4 years he's never going to marry you. If you're a flaky artist you'd better be bringing something to the table whether looks or home making skills. Finally if he's not Christian it's DOA anyway.
I'm struggling with this myself. Woman age 30, been with my SO for over 4 years, working together to grow close and become a family. He knew I wanted kids from the start. Four years on, still waiting for a ring... I mentioned finally wanting to have a baby. SO's story changed- he doesn't think he can or will ever be able to support me. I am not some independent career woman, I'm a flaky artist barely making ends meet as is. I can't support myself if I leave him. I have no family that could support me, no close friends, I would definitely have to live out of a car. What am I supposed to do? I am almost out of time. It had already taken me until 26 to find a man with property and a decent income. Honestly not sure I want to even continue to live. This society sucks.
Lmao maybe you should evaluated character over property and income then?? Good character would include eing hard working and motivated among other things and lead to the materialistic shit you want. Also if he hasn't married you in 4 years he's never going to marry you. If you're a flaky artist you'd better be bringing something to the table whether looks or home making skills. Finally if he's not Christian it's DOA anyway.