There are no realistic circumstances where his life is going to depend on knowing how to insert a buttplug at 8 years old, all things being well and right. It's also like they forgot that Kyle was entirely justified and later vindicated, which if he wasn't "groomed", he'd have been killed by a pedophile or a mob - I can't think of a worse way to counter yourself.

Groomed for success/survival > Groomed for sexual amusement