As a pro-choice atheist who has consistently voted Democrat throughout my adult life,

In other words, she’s a left winger who’s uncomfortable with right wing rhetoric, even the tepid controlled-oppositional opinions proffered by the Daily Wire.

I have to believe there are reachable centrists, including moderate liberals, who are uncomfortable with gender ideology

I seriously doubt that they exist. And to the extent that they do exist, they’ll all cowardly toe the party line on transgenderism because nearly everyone on the left fears ostracization, because group solidarity is a core component of leftism.