you could start with not even being able to TYPE the word "condoms".
Yeah, that's cringe.
fill in with the judgey bullshit about what other people are buying.
People are allowed opinions and morals. Swap it around to something you might be outraged about; imagine you lent a friend money for a business, and they started selling woke shit, or hormone therapy or something.
and finish with the wanting to keep control of money they lend AFTER they lend it.
That's standard practice. She should have done it more officially and invested or something, but she says in that thread that she can pull it out at any time. So she does have control over the money she lent, and thus some inherent control over her friend's business.
OP's take isn't perfect, but I do think it's a lot more nuanced than just 'insane ideas.'
Yeah, that's cringe.
People are allowed opinions and morals. Swap it around to something you might be outraged about; imagine you lent a friend money for a business, and they started selling woke shit, or hormone therapy or something.
That's standard practice. She should have done it more officially and invested or something, but she says in that thread that she can pull it out at any time. So she does have control over the money she lent, and thus some inherent control over her friend's business.
OP's take isn't perfect, but I do think it's a lot more nuanced than just 'insane ideas.'