Love is making an effort for another person but also the stuff that follows “men want a woman who…” is almost always a lie to begin with. It presents men’s libido as a borderline cherubic moral arbiter instead of an urge inherited from ape-like forebears. I always bring this up but Church’s in America loudly complain that they have so many young single women and so few young single men to mingle with them. So any claim that men want modesty, temperance, or innocence is out the window.

They can’t separate themselves from their fantasies, Pew came out the other day with 62% of men under 30 being single. They have to believe that the guys who use them as cumdumpsters actually desire them for something other than a hole.