They are fundamentally unable to process the idea of you not wanting them.

Correct. Every time they churn out another article about growing proportion of unpartnered males there's an underlying assumption that men are interested in the deal that's being offered, and that assumes facts not in evidence. Besides the fact that all the hoops they're trying to shame men into jumping through won't improve their dating prospects, they're not going to dance for something that they have no interest in. Feminist relationships don't add value to a man's life, they make it worse. More and more men are waking up to that fact.