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Simp writes a rambling article blaming the incel problem on men's "relationship skills gap" and shaming them for suggesting that looks play a role (archive.ph)
posted 3 years ago by FuckGenderPolitics 3 years ago by FuckGenderPolitics +39 / -0
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– FuckGenderPolitics [S] 32 points 3 years ago +32 / -0

The rise of dating apps needs to be seen alongside updating cultural norms, which now allow women to reject men with greater confidence and ease than some years ago.

Fuck off with this bullshit. Women have been gleefully rejecting betas since the sexual revolution enabled their Chad chasing, if not before.

As a result, relationship standards have slowly risen...This provides men a real opportunity to build up their relationship skills...

Maybe it's worth asking why they have a "relationship skills gap" to begin with. The only way to learn how to be in a relationship is by being in a relationship, and that's not an option for the men they reject. When you reject a man until he's in his 30's it takes a special kind of retard to whine that he has no idea how to be in a relationship.

Disappointingly, however, men have failed to rise to the occasion. Instead of choosing to bridge their “relationship skills gap” — as Matos puts it — men have turned toward the incel ideology in larger numbers, feeling a greater sense of entitlement over sex and women’s bodies. They have made it a matter of their appearance and inferiority instead of seriously considering changing with the times.

They make it a matter of their appearance because that's largely what it's about. The situation isn't as dire as most of them make it out to be but it's often close. Factors other than looks do matter but only on the margins. Looksmaxing offers by far the most bang for the buck when it comes to improving one's dating prospects. Women don't select for "relationship skills", at least not for the kinds of relationships that are worth having (ie the AF side of AFBB). They don't give a shit if Chad has "relationship skills". Those are just a pretext for divorce raping the beta who's paying for her bad choices once she's able to extort his resources without having to tolerate his existence. So if you're looking to attract women that aren't just looking for a payday working on your "relationship skills" is a dead end.

Does this mean that Alexandra Hunt’s solution to move to the right to sex could be the answer to the problem of men not having enough sex? Experts do not think so ... Unless misogyny and the existing gender hierarchy are addressed at the grassroots level and are completely rooted out, a right to sex still wouldn’t solve problems of domestic and intimate partner violence.

Way to move the goal posts you spineless weasel. If domestic violence is a problem then the guy is by definition not an incel. Try to stay on topic.

Reactions to Matos’ piece indicate that it is high time men learned to meet the expectations in a relationship.

Fuck off you repulsive little faggot. Go try it yourself. The pink haired landwhale you have your eye on still won't touch your dick. Men aren't going to jump through these hoops until the end result becomes worth their while. They're increasingly choosing to go their own way over being the beta to some fat entitled single mother that never held Chad to those standards before she jumped into bed with him. Any self respecting man avoids the "feminist relationships" that are on offer like the plague.

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– MLGS 12 points 3 years ago +12 / -0

Fuck off with this bullshit. Women have been gleefully rejecting betas since the sexual revolution enabled their Chad chasing, if not before.

The internet and especially packaging the internet into a format women and black people could use (smartphones) made it unbelievably easier than ever before.

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– YouAreAPirate 8 points 3 years ago +8 / -0

Maybe it's worth asking why they have a "relationship skills gap" to begin with. The only way to learn how to be in a relationship is by being in a relationship, and that's not an option for the men they reject.

This has so many similarities to the vicious job cycle. Need relationship skills to get a relationship ---> need a relationship to get relationship skills ---> etc etc ad infinitum

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– censorthisss 3 points 3 years ago +3 / -0

I guess ugly men just need to add, "I've worked hard on my relationship skills and will be a good boy at all times" in their bios and the pussy will start raining! 🙄

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