Anyone who hasn't been actively turned down by the nastiest prostitute in the state isn't actually involuntarily celibate yet. They're celibate due to voluntarily holding on to their (unattainably high) standards.

Incel was made up by a woman to describe herself. Male incels on reddit had a large contigent of absolute lunatics. It's just become the new neckbeard but that doesn't take away from it previously having a basis in reality.