an ungrateful parasite who thinks they are superior.

Stop dating leftists, impy.

But they don't. They are capable of work. They just don't want to do anything because they are lazy and self-obsessed, believing everything should be handed to them.

You're getting every part of this confused. Women do need men as provider and protector. A good man is like a literal walking super-soldier to women. His agency is his value. A woman can protect herself (but not as well as a man can). A woman can provide for herself (but not as well as a man can).

In order to keep a man, a woman has additional responsibilities that do not involve being a pretty sex doll; but involve what used to be called "women's work". Building and maintaining the aesthetics of a home, building a family, building a community. Doing most of the social navigating and construction. The responsibility of a woman is for her to heal and inspire him into doing all that providing and protecting.

Now I grant you that none of our "I'm the table" modern women fall into that, but that is because of the prevalence of Leftism in our degenerated society.

we all have to chained to them to prevent 1984, but that's a life of misery nobody wants

Lots of men want women. Particularly good women that we have a shortage of, and what I described is what a ton of men want.

so we are left in a perpetual war that nobody is willing to escalate beyond vague comments to actually calling them out publicly.

That's Feminist rhetoric and you know it.