True, most usages these days are just sexist hate speech by gender crits, regressive leftists, and similar extremists.

Most people who cannot get laid despite trying would use the term "involuntarily celibate" to disambiguate themselves from the community.

Extra fun fact: while the incel community is seperate from all other groups that hate regressive leftists and claming otherwise is considered offensive, the femcels are actually part of the gendercrit sphere. The incel community and the femcels do not get along as the incel community despises them for not trying harder by lowering their standards, while the femcels consider them all udesireable shitheads.