The issue often is, you aren't a relevant part of this equation. The corporates and the devs make the decision without consulting you, and there is little you can do to prevent that.

Which leaves you with backlash, leaving yourself open to this harassment as they company will often happily weaponize the mob against anyone who questions them, or simply abandoning it to die, as the woke will never be enough support to actually keep it up.

The time when simply gatekeeping would work was years ago. It might be effective in things like tabletop when you have considerable control over the product, but otherwise all you can do is keep a closed circle on your own social parts.