Outside of the total psychos (which the rest of them enable) they're not rubbing their hands together gleefully and saying 'NOW I CAN ABUSE MEN'.

It's more insidious than that. They're taught that men are inherently violent and masculinity is a problem that needs to be 'fixed'. A lot of them think they're improving men by feminizing them and helping society by keeping them from power, and they certainly don't care if men get hurt or disenfranchised in the process. Why should they? Most men don't care either.

Western society is wholly gynophilic. Every value it holds and every policy it enacts encourages the worst traits in women and suppresses the best traits in men. A woman simply being inconvenienced is a horrific tragedy while men are, at best, entirely expendable.

Ideological rot suffuses every layer of society. The problem is more far reaching, and far more complicated, than 'woman are genocidal and want us dead'.