The standard for men has and always will be "slightly better than average in every aspect". It's an ideal because it should be unreachable to pretty much every woman. The standard for women is "will dating him increase my status/make other women jealous"
The standard for men has and always will be "slightly better than average in every aspect". It's an ideal because it should be unreachable to pretty much every woman. The standard for women is "will dating him increase my status/make other women jealous"