Because you throw out those labels randomly as a means to excuse things you don't like so it's not accurate, similar to how SJWs call anyone they don't like "nazis" because it's a charged term that affects those who hear/read it.

So maybe you really are addressing/engaging TERFs, ConPro, and women at times, however when you get riled up [more] you throw those terms out at anyone, regardless of whether it applies to them.