we decided that treating her differently due to her race was actually racist

That's an issue being talked about in comedy too. At least by the more based comedians, not the virtue signaling cucks who pulled up the ladder so nobody else could compete. The SJWs started spreading the meme "good comedy punches up, never down". One, that's bullshit, comedians hit everyone. Two, by imposing such a rule and not making fun of gays or blacks, you are saying that gays and blacks are inferior and must be protected like fragile pets.