Finding a woman who's aware of gynocentrism without being a giant tradcon

That's the secret captain, these girls are only saying they are aware of it to abuse it still. They are pulling the classic "not like other girls" by prostrating themselves as totes not gonna do that, or gonna do it ironically to stand out among the others. And even then, they are only aware of it in superficial obvious ways, and ignore the mountain of other ways they benefit from it still.