We don't tell victims of the (non tranny) groomers that they're retards who should be removed from the gene pool

Arguably this pure 100% black/white victim mentality is just as harmful. Because the non-kid victims often made numerous mistakes, often avoidable ones that they are shirking responsibility for to end up in such situations. The kind of brainpower that is in fact not a good thing to keep propagating into the future.

The answer isn't that trannies should be an exception. Its that the stance on it was bad to begin with.