That community as a whole will use you until you overdose in an ally of a crumbling blue city and they will not shed a tear or bury you.

There's your problem. Gays v. Queers. You're issue is with the Queer Revolutionary Activists. And no they shed lots of tears, it just doesn't mean anything.

But in my experience, all they do is tell someone they’re not worth anything until they transition or identify as one of the thousands of genders they made up in the course of five years.

Even the queer activists aren't doing this. Typically, they are just targeting broken kids for grooming into Queer Revolutionary Ideology. They drive people to suicide after they gain control over them by making them dependent upon affirmation. They aren't saying that people aren't worth anything until they transition. They are over-incentivizing degeneracy. And again, that has not only very little to do with gays, but gays are starting to notice that the queers are targeting them by making the gay men transition.

Anytime I see something related to the LGBT establishment, I’ll always remember the face of the person they drove to suicide after months of telling him he wasn’t good enough and I sure hope you don’t become like him. Not a single one of them said good bye and they won’t say good bye to you either if you keep hanging out around them.

The Queers are doing that to Andy Ngo. Ngo isn't doing that to others. You're throwing everyone into the same trash bin.