I agree with you.

We would all prefer to get a top tier mate, but that's impossible in real life. Top tier mates can choose anyone they wish to partner with, but they almost universally choose other top tier mates. The people that are left do the same, down the line, until everyone is coupled. That's why the study of real life dating (in person) that Jordan Peterson showed is so important. It showed that even though everyone was highly selective, once people began to couple, and were removed from the dating market, it forced women to choose and settle down, otherwise they would be left alone, which is far more dangerous than selecting a less attractive mate than they would otherwise prefer. This resulted in women settling with a man relatively within their attractiveness range, rather than constantly pursuing top tier men.

This is why social media and dating apps are so bad for men, and women. It gives women a nearly endless supply of top tier men, and thus they are never forced to settle. It's also why the constant sexual degeneracy and attack on traditional marriage is so crucial for globalists.