By almost all measurements women are clustered while men are exceptional. So nearly all women are near the 100 IQ median area, while men make up most of the geniuses AND dribbling retards at both bell ends to balance back to 100 despite the disparities.

And as black people in general are mostly in the 80-90 range instead, that means nearly all black women will be kinda stupid compared to other women you know. Without the balance of meeting a lot of smart ones to balance out the retarded ones like you would with males.