I’d say the fact that something as simple as a romantic breakup can make you bitter and angry towards all women rather proves which perspective is the more mature and rational one.
Yes, I would say “hate the rape, not the rapist”, but this takes an incredible amount of maturity and understanding that most people simply don’t have, especially when you’re the victim and struggling with all of the negative emotions that come with that.
There’s also the mystery and power of forgiveness, which again, most won’t understand but which plays a huge role in all of this.
On an armchair level, you make sense. Where it fails is in the real world. Take more maturity to realize that the fantasy of "ideal" must be subservient to the "real".
I’d say the fact that something as simple as a romantic breakup can make you bitter and angry towards all women rather proves which perspective is the more mature and rational one.
Yes, I would say “hate the rape, not the rapist”, but this takes an incredible amount of maturity and understanding that most people simply don’t have, especially when you’re the victim and struggling with all of the negative emotions that come with that.
There’s also the mystery and power of forgiveness, which again, most won’t understand but which plays a huge role in all of this.
On an armchair level, you make sense. Where it fails is in the real world. Take more maturity to realize that the fantasy of "ideal" must be subservient to the "real".