I think melinda gates has been the person in control of the last 3 or 4 years of the feminist narrative. When their divorce was announced I saw a picture of her and it all clicked.

She has that exact balance of just enough emotional understanding to manipulate, with plenty of sociopathy to run you over and feel good about it.

I've wondered if bill gates suddenly realized it was his money finding an entire natrative trying to destroy people like him.