Suggesting that race doesn’t matter destroys all of your reasonable arguments. Race predetermines and affects all other outcomes regardless of societal influences.
This worldview is basically a different side of the same coin as the Left; in-fact, I'd wager you probably adopted your position over the last 5-10 years as a reaction to the Left.
Someone's race and my thinning hair don't matter. The insecurity comes from thinking they do. Self-improvement is realizing they don't and understanding what really does matter... your personal character, self-discipline, the way you treat others, your honesty and integrity, just to name a few. It is important to understand and come to terms with your own nature so you can face it head-on, but everyone is battling their own demons and it's how you deal with those demons that defines you, not the deck you were dealt with at the start.
Understanding who you are may include understanding your parents, grandparents and ancestry, but don't think that just because society puts you in a poorly defined group called "race" (a term with multiple definitions and no scientific specificity) that your identity -- who you are as a person, your character, your value as a human being -- is somehow tied to your race.
Blacks need to remember that they are black, and start from there — just as you do as a man with male pattern baldness. You both have genetic disadvantages that must be accepted and overcome to compete in society and live a healthy life.
Who says it's a genetic disadvantage?
You have a bad temper and it's easy to set you off. Do you blame this on being white, or do you just deal with it, understanding it's one of the cards you were dealt? Attributing it to being white does absolutely nothing for you. The same is true whether you have a history of suicide in your family, have trouble opening up to people, get jealous quickly, get uncontrollably obsessive over small details, suffer from crippling apathy, have trouble adapting to social settings, suffer from addiction, and so on.
By your logic, you should just be able to ignore it and it will stop affecting you.
It makes no difference whether I ignore it or not. Whether I'm bald or not is irrelevant to my value as a person. The same is true for my race.
Ask 10 women if they think its irrelevant. I believe you’ve arrived at your position as a cope, and you’re projecting. You want to believe because you’re personally invested and affected. Thats a perfectly natural reaction, but its a subjective reality.
If you value the superficial opinion of women that much, then you're just proving my point. Maybe you're just shallow?
Everyone is allowed to be a little insecure about things like their appearance from time-to-time, everyone is, but it's important not to fool yourself into thinking it's anything but superficial.
What I value does not influence random sampling. What they value limits your viability as a suitable mate, based on the genetic markers which you signal. Your psychological shield plays no part in this. It merely allows you to function despite the fact. I suggest that blacks do the same thing and accept that which is beyond their control, and attempt to rise above the hand that they’ve been dealt.
If you think having a full head of hair gives someone a bigger selection advantage than their personal character, self-discipline, the way they treat others, their honesty and integrity, etc. then I encourage you to test that hypothesis.
Your strategy will lead you to hooking up with shallow women who will abort your baby, brainwash your child, divorce you, take half your income, break your heart and ruin your life. My strategy will result in lasting happiness and success; it's not even a contest.
This worldview is basically a different side of the same coin as the Left; in-fact, I'd wager you probably adopted your position over the last 5-10 years as a reaction to the Left.
Someone's race and my thinning hair don't matter. The insecurity comes from thinking they do. Self-improvement is realizing they don't and understanding what really does matter... your personal character, self-discipline, the way you treat others, your honesty and integrity, just to name a few. It is important to understand and come to terms with your own nature so you can face it head-on, but everyone is battling their own demons and it's how you deal with those demons that defines you, not the deck you were dealt with at the start.
Understanding who you are may include understanding your parents, grandparents and ancestry, but don't think that just because society puts you in a poorly defined group called "race" (a term with multiple definitions and no scientific specificity) that your identity -- who you are as a person, your character, your value as a human being -- is somehow tied to your race.
Who says it's a genetic disadvantage?
You have a bad temper and it's easy to set you off. Do you blame this on being white, or do you just deal with it, understanding it's one of the cards you were dealt? Attributing it to being white does absolutely nothing for you. The same is true whether you have a history of suicide in your family, have trouble opening up to people, get jealous quickly, get uncontrollably obsessive over small details, suffer from crippling apathy, have trouble adapting to social settings, suffer from addiction, and so on.
It makes no difference whether I ignore it or not. Whether I'm bald or not is irrelevant to my value as a person. The same is true for my race.
Ask 10 women if they think its irrelevant. I believe you’ve arrived at your position as a cope, and you’re projecting. You want to believe because you’re personally invested and affected. Thats a perfectly natural reaction, but its a subjective reality.
If you value the superficial opinion of women that much, then you're just proving my point. Maybe you're just shallow?
Everyone is allowed to be a little insecure about things like their appearance from time-to-time, everyone is, but it's important not to fool yourself into thinking it's anything but superficial.
What I value does not influence random sampling. What they value limits your viability as a suitable mate, based on the genetic markers which you signal. Your psychological shield plays no part in this. It merely allows you to function despite the fact. I suggest that blacks do the same thing and accept that which is beyond their control, and attempt to rise above the hand that they’ve been dealt.
Maybe I’m just right?
If you think having a full head of hair gives someone a bigger selection advantage than their personal character, self-discipline, the way they treat others, their honesty and integrity, etc. then I encourage you to test that hypothesis.
Your strategy will lead you to hooking up with shallow women who will abort your baby, brainwash your child, divorce you, take half your income, break your heart and ruin your life. My strategy will result in lasting happiness and success; it's not even a contest.