Are there any lists that have been compiled of decent alternatives? I know about Bongino's payment processor, but I'm not sure it looks super-robust or well thought out.
Also, can Cloudflare be trusted? They seem to be much more committed to free speech than everyone else, but there are some worrying signs. My site shouldn't be super-controversial, but I certainly don't trust it with Stripe or DO these days.
CloudFlare dumped 8chan for no reason. (Yes, a manifesto was posted there, and quickly removed by moderators, so what, that's social media.) So, no, they cannot be trusted. On the other hand, they have been more free-speech supporting than most other tech companies, and the left can't wait till Matthew Prince, the CEO, retires or dies and is replaced.
See Joshua Moon's article on this.
There may not be any large tech corp that doesn't at least partly capitulate to woke. You just can't exist in that industry without its pressure and influence. CoinBase has somewhat resisted with their no-politics rule.
Notably, Stripe threatened to cut off VDare.com several months ago, but has not yet done so (whereas PayPal did in 2017).