They (which is often other women) control women by doling out small amounts of validation in exchange for doing, thinking, or feeling what they want them to.
If a man starts validating the woman around him they are absolutely pissed - it's like a rival drug cartel springing up. A woman can't control other women via tiny handouts of validation if someone else is giving it out for free.
It's really simple.
These narrative are about power.
They (which is often other women) control women by doling out small amounts of validation in exchange for doing, thinking, or feeling what they want them to.
If a man starts validating the woman around him they are absolutely pissed - it's like a rival drug cartel springing up. A woman can't control other women via tiny handouts of validation if someone else is giving it out for free.