Lol, you perfectly exemplify the out of control beauty standards/over importance of looks, so very many men have, completely out of whack with their looks or social status, and more importantly out of whack with basic morality. Plenty of "4" males looking for hot "10" females and thinking they deserve it because "anything less takes an emotional toll and they're nearly in tears they're so degraded". Then they complain when the woman divorces them and they wonder why. Values out of whack. Looks do not make a person. Physical attraction is important, but not to the extent you should be in tears. That's unhealthy and immoral.