People with morals don't stand by and chalk up indoctrination techniques to groom kids as learning to "agree to disagree.

Proof of indoctrination/grooming? So far none has been posted in this thread.

12 years old is 7th grade, that's definitely the time that puberty hits hard (in girls it starts at age 11 according to NHS). I find it insane that people think it's impossible for a kid to figure it out.