They're already pushing an agenda by running for public office and then shaming anyone who expresses "hate" towards them.

If trans people were this oddball lifestyle that lives on the fringes but were otherwise irrelevant, nobody would care. Most people didn't have a problem with drag queens. But they make it a public issue and demand that society cater to them and give them special rights. Yes everyone should be treated equally by the law. Yes, a man has the right to call himself a woman. No, he doesn't have the right to force me, the government, his company, or anyone else to play along.

It sounds like you agree with this, so I don't know see you agree with this woman. She denies you the right to mock her protected class, and covers her criticism up in leftist newspeak so we have no idea what she's even talking about. Was anyone uncivil? I assume she's just unintelligent and trying to use big people words, but it's still insidious behavior.