10: Their Natural Aversion To Sunlight
9: Their Creator, Lolth, Is Still Alive & Present
8: They're A Matriarchal Society
7: Their Society Runs On Slavery
6: The Drow Culture Is Counterproductive
5: They're More Attractive Than Other Elves
4: Some Become Disillusioned, Leading To Kindness
3: They're A Bit Short
2: Mind Flayers Fear Them
1: Attempts To Change The Racist Stereotype
If you remove what it is well known and what is wrong you have nothing left and this are the people who claim to be fans.
The Illithid do not "fear" the drow, they respect them as a threat and come into violent conflict with them regularly. See: Baldur's Gate 2 where they straight up abduct a high ranking priestess.
The dark elves will always be villainous. It is their nature and their culture, anyone who says otherwise is future sacrifice to Lolth.