Well, at least women lose out.

Well, I don't share your all-consuming hatred, so I don't regard 51% of the population suffering as a good thing.

And I don't want women entering my workplace (don't trust them not to try and get me fired) ,

Your paranoia is definitely a reason to deny women jobs.

or the hospital I go to get treated if I get injured (don't trust them not to attempt to kill me.) Life is tough.

But one is based on reality, and the other on abject lunacy and paranoia. Women shouldn't have to undress in front of men, particularly degenerates. Your delusions of that waminz trying to kill you is going to be disregarded as what it is, the ravings of a madman.

Are we just going to ignore that feminists were allied with trans ideology

No, that is just your inability to see distinctions. It's the intersectionalists, whose censorship you cheer at every turn, who were allied with trans ideology.

That happened in the UK, TERFs only appeared after they took complete victory.

Again, you just ignored the counterpoint. 'Transgenderism' wasn't even a thing until a few years ago, at least mainstream.