It definitely exists, just not in white neighborhoods. I grew up around poor mexicans, and there was tons of catcalling, and not all of it was unsuccessful or unwanted, either.
I lived in NYC about 20 years ago. My brother was friends with this Jamaican lady who had a decent face and a massive bubble butt. I went to their office one night after work and we walked like six blocks to get drinks.
I’m not a prude or anything but the things I heard men (none white or Asian) say to this woman were unconscionable. My mother would smother me with a pillow if she saw me talk to a woman that way. And trust me, it wasn’t like a random one off thing for this lady, it was like every 30 feet.
She had a big mouth to return volleys, too. One guy was asking “why you walking with them white boys?” And she immediately dropped “white boys have jobs and aren’t sitting on a stoop yelling at women all day - you should try it sometime.”
Same as women complaining how they always get catcalled
It definitely exists, just not in white neighborhoods. I grew up around poor mexicans, and there was tons of catcalling, and not all of it was unsuccessful or unwanted, either.
I lived in NYC about 20 years ago. My brother was friends with this Jamaican lady who had a decent face and a massive bubble butt. I went to their office one night after work and we walked like six blocks to get drinks.
I’m not a prude or anything but the things I heard men (none white or Asian) say to this woman were unconscionable. My mother would smother me with a pillow if she saw me talk to a woman that way. And trust me, it wasn’t like a random one off thing for this lady, it was like every 30 feet.
She had a big mouth to return volleys, too. One guy was asking “why you walking with them white boys?” And she immediately dropped “white boys have jobs and aren’t sitting on a stoop yelling at women all day - you should try it sometime.”