I could write a book about all the whoppers women have told that they really believe is true. I had an exgf that really believed she was famous and would get mad when I told her she wasn't.

That was abuse- another lie, the slightest thing can be construed as abuse and all abuse is equal. Telling a woman she shouldn't have a second piece of cake is equal to beating her half to death with a baseball bat.

Fucked up but that's how womens' minds work. I guarantee everyone one has an ex or several that has cried to her friends about how abusive you were, no matter how sweet and considerate you were to her.