Most people, including most vegans, just want to live their lives, put only what they want in their mouths, and just generally do their own thing and not be judged, the same as most people here.

Maybe, except you never see this people. Most vegans are those who lecture everyone on how they are killing the planet and you are a monster for eating Bambi or something.

The reason people do not like vegans is that they act like assholes. As for the soy thing, soy men look kind of bad, the skinny with men boobs look is just not a good look. That and it does contain estrogen, is obviously not as potent as hormones produced by the body but men boobs + estrogen makes for a good laugh.

How many times have you seen a conversation where only people who eat meat are talking about how much they hate vegans, for all the judging that vegans do

This is totally fine in my book, if vegans act like assholes then we should be able to talk about how they are assholes or hypocrites.